Thursday, November 12, 2009

Only for Chinese readers =D

Would like to share an article with you guys,an article that closely reflects our daily life.

能解決的事,不必去擔心;
不能解決的事,擔心也沒用。
在順境中感恩、在逆境中依舊心存喜樂 ……

累了,就把心事放下來
最近認識一位美國籍的出家師父,是個很有趣的事情。
特別是他叫我舉起蕃茄汁,跟他說話的經驗。
我們約在新竹的一家茶館,用英文談論著心經,
師父用英文跟我解釋因果、輪迴這些事情,這都還不稀奇。

有趣的事情在後頭呢!
師父一聽完我跟他提到~個人煩惱的時候,
他索性要我左手提起~他剛買的三罐番茄汁,
一邊提著,一邊跟他說話。
可想而知,我左手感覺到疲勞的程度,跟時間成了正比。
也懊惱著為何師父要我一邊提著三罐蕃茄汁,一邊跟他說話。
受不了這樣的酸楚,我自行把左手放下,
卻聽到師父跟我說:
「 Hold it up, and keep talking to me. 」

聽到這樣的話,心理不免起了疑心,
我手提的那麼酸,
為何不讓我放下手上的重物,輕鬆地與他對談?
約莫過了15分鐘,我的左手實在承受不住了,
才聽見師父跟我說:「Now you can put it down」。
看著我狐疑的臉,師父居然笑了出來。

「你不喜歡提著重物跟我說話, 為何你卻喜歡帶著煩惱,過著你的生活呢?
手酸了,放下就好,對待煩惱,不也是這樣?
或是這些煩惱,就像是那些番茄汁一樣,
是你自己用手把它們給舉起來的呢?」

有趣的經驗,對吧?
最近我開始這樣的練習,
一手舉起有重量的東西,一邊想著事情。
手酸了,自然會放下手上的東西,
看看有一天,我會不會也學到,心累了,就把心事給放下來。
我們能很容易的放下有形的重物,
卻很難放下無形的重擔。

執著的人生~會讓自己承擔莫需有的重擔。
學習放下執著~也就在學習人生自在。

Monday, November 2, 2009

End of Assignments marathon!

No more assignments!Nothing beats the joy of camping in uni at the end of semester!

Fighting fighting!Project and essay due!


Last assignment!Programming makes me vomit!


but anyway,i conquered it!Watching sunrise at uni....Take a deeeeep breath!


with beloved zombie-looking coursemates!knowing that i'm not alone,it keeps me fighting till the end!=)

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Update from me!

Too many things happened, wishing that i could be there.
I can't wait to go home,albeit there are so many factors that make me stay.

It has been a fruitful week,hmm actually,weeks.Wake up thinking about my project,thinking about assignments before sleep.
Busy till i couldn't even be bothered that its already the last week of my uni life.
Honours lab is like my home now.Believe it or not,i love it that way.Together working so hard with fellow coursemates,the feeling is like fighting against the war!
3 more days to submitting Project!yay!and i conquer David Pitt's project!No more actuarial subs!

P/s: suppose to be preparing for my presentation later

Ciaoz for now!

Haven had much time for my loves coz of all these!but i'll make it up after this!!!I promise!Muaccksss!

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

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I freaking hate this moment!
arrghhh i cant work!

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Successful man?

A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do (Bob Dylan)

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distance has increased by another hour,he says

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Frog in the well


Grrrr...These people out there!Hmmmph!
Anyway,i'm not the losing party if you refuse to listen to the facts.
Constantly telling myself...to not be one of them.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Nine words women use

I just read this article on the web and found it extremely true.well at least for me.

(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)

(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

(7) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome'. that will bring on a 'whatever').

(8) Whatever: Is a woman's way of saying F--- YOU!

(9) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.

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Even though i din get much holiday over the break,its a lovely one.With qian's family around,my house sudd feel so homey.

As what i always said,life's still good.and thats only when i put my assignments at aside for seconds.yes for SECONDS.hehe!

Nevertheless,no pain no gain right?Cant wait for NICE foods tmr!and for now,back to studies!!!=)